The authors have gathered together and reviewed the research into this topic. Highlights include:
- A 2003 study by two university psychologists which showed that women consistently under-rated their performance in a variety of maths and science tests while men over-rated theirs. In reality, the performance of both sexes was on a par
- A 7 year experiment by a Manchester Business School professor on her students which found that men expected to earn much more than their female colleagues - and believed they deserved to earn more than the women believed
- A Hewlett Packard study which found that women don't go for promotion unless they feel they have close to 100% of the required qualifications while men go for it with only 60% of what's required
So women are, once again, at fault for their lack of progress?
Commentators including Amanda Duberman at the Huffington Post have objected that the idea of the confidence gap is - once again - putting the blame on women for their apparent lack of progress in the workplace. The objectors suggest that inequality is caused by workplace sexism, not women themselves. This is a similar argument to that levelled at Sheryl Sandberg and her Lean In project. In my view, based squarely on my experience as a coach and former corporate professional, the reason women are held back in the workplace is a complex mixture of both workplace culture and certain female characteristics. What The Confidence Code and Lean In offer to women is an opportunity to reflect on our own contribution, to identify where and when we are being our own worst enemy and to identify actions we can take to close the confidence gap. Returning from a break, it gives a push to apply for the job we want even if we're not 100% qualified and to negotiate for a higher salary rather than feeling grateful and accepting the first offer!
Practical ways to build your confidence
Fortunately, discoveries in neuroscience and psychology show that it is possible to amend our thought patterns to build confidence and self-belief: with time and practice we can tune down self-critical and doubting thoughts and reinforce more supportive ones. See our previous posts on:
- tackling your inner perfectionist
- toning down your inner worrier
- being a work-home superhero
- recognising if you are being a martyr
- reducing self-critical thoughts
- over-ruling the 'shoulds' guiding your decisions
Posted by Katerina
We will be talking about tackling your fears, doubts, guilt and lack of confidence at Mumsnet Workfest on June 7th. We hope to meet you there!